HOW TO BREAKUP WITH THE ONE YOU LOVE.

                HOW TO BREAKUP                                                                 WITH THE ONE YU LOVE..                                                          1.  Be sure that you really want to permanently end the relationship. Never break up with somebody unless you are okay with the possibility that you may never get back together. Even if you do change your mind after the breakup and agree to get back together, you will have created lasting damage to the relationship that may be irreparable.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   

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Prepare for the possibility that this person might be too hurt to stay with friends, at least initially. Breaking up can be very emotional for everyone involved. Do not expect to be fast friends immediately after the breakup.

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Avoid breaking up for the wrong reasons. You must decide whether your relationship is worth ending.^[2]You have to think about the future for not only yourself, but also your partner.

• Never avoid breaking up with somebody because you are afraid of being single. The only way you can find the right person for you is to get out there and be on your own.
• Never avoid breaking up with somebody because you are afraid of hurting his or her feelings. Breaking up may seem cruel, but continuing to be with somebody you are not in love with anymore is even worse.^[3]
• Don't suggest a "break." Breaks are usually just a segue into a full-on breakup; if you feel that you need a break from the person you're with, then chances are that you actually want to break up but are too afraid of being alone. Rather than asking for a break, wait until you're ready to fully end the relationship and then do it.

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Make the necessary arrangements. If you live together, then decide on who will move out and who will stay (of course, you may want to leave this open to discussion). If you expect your partner to move out, you will need to allow ample time for him/her to find other living arrangements, and should find somewhere else to stay during that time.

• Ask your parents or close friends whether you can stay with them for a few days, or rent a room at a hotel for a couple of nights.
• If you don't live together but see each other daily at either work or school, then you will need to consider whether it's worth re-adjusting your schedule/circumstances. If you think that seeing each other on a regular basis is going to make moving on difficult, then consider changing jobs or rearranging your class schedule to avoid having to constantly interact with this person.